She Said: “My Son’s Are Bull Riders”

When I was 18 years old I hauled a Ford Backhoe for a friend, Donnie Mullins from over at Simonton and dropped it off at a place on I-10 west of Houston, out near Katy. There was private landing strip that ran adjacent to I-10 and a railroad track. It was a grass runway at an oilfield supply company.

A plane came in and the pilot didn’t have the front nose gear locked in or there was a malfunction. As he was taxiing the nose gear collapsed and both props on the twin engine plane dug into the dirt. They needed the backhoe to help free it.

The guy that oversaw the runway and was in charge of digging the plane out was Blue Wheaton. There was a mobile home down at one end of the property where Blue lived. After I got unloaded I was invited to come inside. A lady was there, I’m not sure if it was Mrs. Wheaton or perhaps someone Blue was hoping to make into Mrs. Wheaton.

She was cooking and asked me to stay for dinner. So having no where I needed to be, I agreed.

She was a real talker and kept telling me that her sons were on their way and she really wanted me to meet them. They were bullriders and were passing through on the way to the next rodeo, I think in Louisiana.

Sure enough, a little later we could hear a vehicle pull up with loud rock n roll music playing. Now was it really rock and roll blaring? Anything that wasn’t fairly hardcore Country and Western Music was Rock N Roll to me. The music was playing to the point of vibrating the mobile home.

They both, her sons, along with a third person that I don’t remember his name, made their way inside. Now I’d seen bullriders, and these three guys didn’t look like bull riders to me. They talked a good story but with their longer hair and the loud music, I pegged them right off as being want-a-be bull riders. I have always been good at sizing folks up like that.

Now was their hair really all that long? Back in those days if anyone wore their hair that touched the collar of their shirt, I would have considered them “a-longhair”. Of course being on the road, rodeoing, could have kept them out of a barbershop for a few months. Of course coming off the 1960s, and the Beatle Craze, hairstyles were changing fast.

We had dinner and visited a while. Then it was time for me to get in that old truck and head out for Marble Falls. A day or so later, I ran into my friend Wallace Herbert and I was telling him about these “so called bull riders” that I’d met down by Houston.

He was really into the rodeoing and reached over and pulled out a Rodeo News Magazine and flipped it open to the current world standing. The Kirby Brothers, Sandy and Kaye were both top ranked rough stock riders. As was the other guy, (I could recall his name back then) their traveling partner.

Sandy went on to have a great career. I still see where he, along with his younger brother, Butch judge PRCA events around the country. Butch too went on to have an illustrious riding career. However Kaye, the middle son died back in 1977.

When I first wrote about this experience several years ago I had thought the two Kirby boys that day were Sandy and Butch. However with more research it was evident that it wasn’t Butch, as he would have still been in high school at that point in time. I have since been able to get ahold of Butch and his wife Jo, the daughter of Johnny Cox (The World Famous Shetland Jockey at Paleface Park – And Beyond – I’ve written a lot about those early 1960s experiences). Their input corrected a few things about my encounter that afternoon down by Katy, Texas all those years ago.

With more research I found out that the very talkative and proud mother was Mildred Kirby, a Rodeo Trick Rider. There is an article from the early 60s that was in the New York Times Newspaper telling about her and her boys being on the Rodeo Circuit traveling from hither and yon. The newspaper archive is not readable online but I’m in hopes that I can obtain a copy of it. It would be a great addition to this story.

So as one can tell from the story, I had no idea what I was talking about when I first wrote this, but over time I’ve been able to piece more details.

Tribute to Butch Kirby

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https://vimeo.com/41600753

There is also a grouping of family photos showing she and her sons on their travels, that is registered in the Library of Congress. It appears they are from Look Magazine. Below I am adding the article descriptions that I found.

Hopefully we can come up with a copy of the photographs to add here later –And Then it happened.

As the miracle of FaceBook and The Angora Chronicles worked its magic one more time, I was contacted by a gal that was searching the internet for stuff written about the Kirby Family and ran across the story I had written. She was able to send me pictures and her own story about her connection to the Kirby’s, through a younger half brother Dallas. Here is that communication between us, followed by early photographs of the Kirby Family.

The Collection of Photographs

More about the photos above

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https://www.nytimes.com/1977/07/23/archives/red-smith-home-home-on-the-range-nj.html

This is the NY Times Article from July 23, 1977 that was mentioned above.

The Kirby boys of Salem County, N.J., are in Cheyenne, Wyo., this weekend, discovering all over again what life is like on the American frontier. Cheyenne’s annual rodeo, which the city fathers call Frontier Days and advertises as “The Daddy of Them All,” begins its 81st stand today, meaning that right on through next week the town will swarm with frontiersmen and frontierswomen out of colleges and high schools and homes and houses from Church Buttes to Spotted Horse. The days will be all dust and noise and sweat and violence and there will be sounds of revelry by night. As the week wears on, pedestrians will watch their step to avoid tripping over sunburned frontiersmen and frontierswomen sleeping the sleep of the pure heart among broken bottles. “A nest of squirming maggots,” was one cowboy’s coalmentary on the scene. It is happening that has become old hat to the Kirby boys, who will be going for the money in the arena and, probably, kinging off between performances to work rodeos going on simultaneously in Salt Lake City and Ogden.

The thing is, the Kirby boys were bred for rodeo. That can be said of a lot of kids in Buffalo, Okla., and Red Lodge, Mont., but Sandy and Butch and Kaye Kirby were foaled in Woodstown, N.J., about 10 miles from the Delaware Memorial Bridge, and got to be cowboys there in tomato and asparagus country.

Going to Cheyenne, 22‐year‐old Butch had earned $19,246 toward the 1977 bull‐riding championship and was sitting first in the world in that event. Sandy, 28, was second on bulls with $16,572 and had picked up another $9,125 riding bareback and saddle broncs to be fourth in all‐round competition. (The titles are based on prize money won, and the wrangler with the most money earned in two or more events is the all‐round champion.)

Butch competes only on bulls but Kaye, the middle brother, can do it all—the free‐riding events and steer wrestling. Through most of his 10 years in rodeo Kaye has worked the Eastern circuit, going West for the big shows. This year an injured hand has wiped him out of Cheyenne.

Angry Sirloins

Near Woodstown is a place called Cowtown, N.J., a spread operated by Howard Harris 3d, who raises bucking stock and puts on rodeos. The Kirby kids’ mother, Mildred, was a trick rider and as her sons came along she worked them into the act. When Kenneth Sandy Kirby was 5, he was riding two‐horse teams Roman style, standing with a foot on each horse.

Touring the rodeo circuit with his mother’s act, Sandy itched to try himself out as a sirloin jockey. He was beginning to outgrow his toga, anyhow, so Howard Harris took over his education at Cowtown, putting him on as many as 20 bulls a day week in and week out. Sandy was a contestant at 15. Ask other cowboys what single quality distinguishes Sandy’s work and they’re almost sure to mention his consistent performances. Relatively few bulls stand him on his head, although one named Irritable hooked his face open with a horn and another knocked him out with a horn and shook him as a dog shakes a rat when he got his hand caught in the rope.

This was at the National Finals Rodeo in Oklahoma City, the grand finale of the rodeo year open only to the top 15 cowboys in each event. Sandy remembered nothing about that evening until they showed him photographs the next morning. “I was glad I didn’t know what was going on,” he says.

So that night he rode two bulls and a bareback bronc for $1,800, his biggest single payday.

In a foolish surrender to television, the Professional Rodeo Cowboys Association agreed last year to call the National Finals Rodeo a world championship so it could be described that way on TV. It was ludicrous. Joe Alexander had won $48,156 on bareback broncs over the yearround haul ending Oct. 31, and Chris Le Doux, who went to the finals in 14th place with $14,110, wound up as “world champion.”

In bullriding, though, form held up, and Don Gay, the P.R.C.A. champion, won at Oklahoma City. He needed a mistake in judgment on Sandy Kirby’s part, for although Sandy was hurting with a broken bane in the hand that grips the rope, he had the event locked up after his ninth bull. His 10th and last bull bucked so poorly that the judges gave him the option of accepting a marking of 57 (out of a possible 100) or trying another bull. Feeling that a high score would give him an outside chance to beat Tom Ferguson for the all‐round, he took the re‐ride—and got his head stuck in the ground.

Gary William Kirby, called Butch, was third on the animated T‐bones when he was only 19 but until this year he felt a nagging insecurity aboard a bull that spun to the right. Butch is left‐handed and like many riders he preferred a bull spinning “into his hand.”

Early this year he drew an infamous brute named Joe Cool, and when they came out of the chute Joe went into a leaping, bucking spin to the right. Butch rode him for a marking of 88. From that day on he hasn’t cared whether they spun left, right or did cartwheels.

For biographical information, the P.R.C.A. asks members to fill in questionnaires. A couple that Sandy and Butch submitted in 1968 and 1973, respectively, provide insights.

“What do you like best about rodeoing?” the questionnaire asks. “You don’t have any bosses,” Sandy replied. “What do you think is most important for success in your event, besides the draw?” “Judges that know something about bullriding,” Butch answered. As to superstitions, neithere will wear a green shirt or throw a hat on a bed.

4 thoughts on “She Said: “My Son’s Are Bull Riders”

  1. I have some of the photos from the Library of Congress that you’re looking for. I took their little brother, Dallas Kirby, to Washington DC to find them. I’d be happy to send you copies. Fascinating family!

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